While you never really asked me the reasons why I left, I feel that I owe you an explanation nonetheless. It has been over a year already. It is long past due that you should hear my side of the story. So I am writing this now to tell you why I have to go on my own in this big city.
Back from where we originally come from, our beloved little city, fate brought us together. Those were fun times. Great times. The crazy moments that we shared together were ones that were filled with laughter, adventure and of course, “spirits.” There was so many a day, or more like night, where we would be holed up in a place downing some shots, watching videos or just playing around with computer games. And when we were not doing either of those things, we made sure we were off to another place doing something else.
But like all things in life, everything must come to an end. Yet with every ending, another door opens.. . A new chapter in life begins. We started the new chapter full of excitement, hope and optimism. Deep down though, we knew that sooner or later we might not be seeing each other too often. It is one of the inevitable things in life. I guess we never accepted that fact. So as much as possible we tried to slow it down. That was the plan.
It wasn’t that long. Eventually, we found ourselves in the same big city. Not everyone could come. But most of us are here. Was it not wonderful that we started another chapter of our lives together in a strange new place? Again, the very same things that we left behind in our little city, we were doing it here in the big city. This time though, it is far from the comfort and security of our own homes and families. This time, it is with the addition of many new things.
As with every new beginning it is always something different. Along the way we met several faces. With each step made, we learned new things. It is not alone that a man does great things. There is always that group of people behind him. However, you do know that you are not there just to depend on them. You don’t let the group carry your weight. You do realize that the group is you.
I never left you my friends. I merely tried to see the world in a different light. You should try it sometime. For when we tread together we seem to overcome the impossible, how do we know that we are strong enough to be on our own? How will you know that when you are not with me or him, you will overcome the challenges in life that sometimes you must face alone?
I am still here. The times we had is something I am very glad I have shared with all of you. There will be more of those times. I am quite sure of that. After all.. .
Friendship is not made with the exchange of names. It is made through moments and experiences. Friendship is not earned by seeing each other too often. It is earned through sincerity and trust. Friendship is not kept only in the fun times. It is also through the sad moments.